Ever feel like your pet is trying to tell you something, but you just can’t quite crack the code? Like when your dog gives you that look — is it love, hunger, or a passive-aggressive reminder you forgot their walk? Or when your cat flicks their tail and stares into the void—are they plotting your downfall, or just annoyed you moved their favorite blanket?

Just like humans, pets use body language to communicate how they feel. Let’s explore some of the common pet body language signs and what they mean.

1. The Tail Wag Isn’t Always a Happy Dance

Sure, a wagging tail looks cheerful, but not all wags mean “life is great!” If your dog’s tail is high and wagging stiffly, they might be feeling alert or even a little stressed. It’s kind of like when you hear your boss say, “Can we talk?” A low, slow wag might mean they’re unsure and need some reassurance.

Enjoy the long, loose, and rapid wagging of your dog’s tail. But offer some calm words and lots of petting when you notice the tail’s signals of distress. You can also give them space if they need time to destress. Let them retreat to their pet haven and have some quiet time. 

2. Ears Up, Down, or Back: The Mood Antennas

Pets’ ears are like mood meters. Ears perked up and forward? They’re curious or focused, like when they hear the treat bag crinkle. Flattened ears? They’re scared, nervous, or bracing for you to turn on the vacuum.

Engage with your pet when they’re curious or interested. If you think they might be scared, speak calmly to them or distract them to break them out of their funk. And maybe don’t turn on the vacuum just yet.

3. The Belly Show: Trust or Trap?

When your pet rolls over to show you their belly, it can mean one of two things. For dogs, belly showings can be a sign of trust and a need for love and affection. Go ahead and give them a scratch.

For cats… it’s complicated. They might trust you, or they might just be setting a trap to grab your hand and remind you who’s boss. Proceed with caution, especially if you value your fingers.

4. The Slow Blink: Pet Code for “I Love You”

When your cat gives you a slow blink, it’s the feline equivalent of blowing a kiss. It’s their way of saying, “I trust you” or “You’re not entirely useless, human.” 

Dogs don’t slow blink as much, but they’ll soften their eyes when they’re feeling particularly affectionate. 

Take both as a compliment.

Lean Into Your Pet’s Body Language

As you learn your pet’s body language, it might be a good idea to upgrade your pet’s quiet space. PetLuv premium soft-sided pet carriers create a private retreat for when they’re feeling stressed or out of sorts.

Pets may not come with subtitles, but once you start paying attention to their body language, you’ll realize they’ve been chatting with you all along. Just be sure to listen, especially when the tail flicks or the slow blink turns into a glare.